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but is your choice
In 2015, I was diagnosed with bladder cancer. Looking back, what gave me the most, in addition to the support from family and friends, was to talk to others who had been
through the same thing as myself.
For instance, I got in touch with a person in a similar situation, who could therefore answer far more questions than various doctors, having tried it on his own body and was completely unbiased.